That's the nature of a human being

Today i want to try to touch three aspects, hope it will help you. We all face it everyday of our lives. Sometimes we gave up on our inspirations just because people are saying negative things about us. Growing up i faced a lot of criticism, they used to tell me that i can not do certain things, despite the fact that i was a small boy i managed to believe in myself and have confident in everything i did. I used to take their criticism as a motivational speech. That's why today my greatest motivational speech comes from those who criticize and say negative things about me. The following are 3 things i learnt as i was growing up. To help me explain them let's look at this story....





This is a short story to teach us few lessons. A man and his wife were once going with their donkey to market. As they were walking along by its side a countryman passed them laughing and said : "You fools, you don't even know how to ride a donkey ha ha ha" So the man put his wife on the Donkey and they went on their way. But soon they passed a group of men. One of whom said : "See that stupid man. He should ride because he is the boss of the woman."

So the Man ordered his wife to get off and got on himself. But they hadn't gone far when they passed two women. One of whom said to the other : "Shame on that lazy lout, he should be kind to his wife." Well the Man did not know what to do. But at last he took his wife up before him on the Donkey. By this time they had come to the town and the passers-by began to jeer and point at them. The Man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at. The men said : 

"Aren't you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor Donkey of yours - you and your hulking wife?" The man and wife got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, till at last they cut down a pole, tied the Donkey's feet to it and raised the pole and the Donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them till they came to Market Bridge when the Donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the wife to drop her end of the pole. In the struggle the Donkey fell over the bridge and her fore-feet being tied together, she was drowned. "That will teach you," said an old man who had followed them.

We face it daily in our life's,  some of us we are afraid of making our own decisions, dear reader everything you are going to do good or bad people are going to find something to say positive and negative.  There are only 3 things you should know

1. You can't please everybody

Yes you can't please everyone,You can't please everyone. When you're too focused on living up to other people's standards, you aren't spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it's all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems!
You can't please everyone. When you're too focused on living up to other people's standards, you aren't spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it's all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems!
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You can't please everyone. When you're too focused on living up to other people's standards, you aren't spending enough time raising your own. Some people may whisper, complain and judge. But for the most part, it's all in your head. People care less about your actions than you think. Why? They have their own problems!
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 2. Ready to face criticism

 Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember, the only taste of success some people have is when they take a bite out of you. Take Criticism is an indirect form of self-boasting

3. Just do what you believe is right
Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
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 Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence
 in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard, and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.
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Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
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Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.
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