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2017 a year to work

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2017 A YEAR TO WORK ''In all labour there is profit; but the talk of the lips tendeth only to penury''. A new year began and i am grateful to God for giving us another opportunity to impact lives, provide solutions to the world and spread his love to ALL. At the beginning of every year people normally have so much excitement and the belief that since it's a new year things are going to be better. We talk so much about how things are going to be better in our businesses, academics, relationships etc. And some might have actually forgotten that they set some resolutions at the beginning of the year. Well, yes i have no doubt that the path of a just a man turns brighter but if you are going to just sit down and not work to better your life then absolutely nothing is going to change at all. What will make 2017 a great year is your attitude towards it and not just sitting and hoping for some magical transformation to happen just because it's a new year. F...

Turning endings into new beginnings

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Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.  You know this, and yet when you’re in the thick of an unexpected or unwanted ending, it’s hard to see where the new path begins.  And that’s because you can’t connect the dots of your life’s story looking forwards, you can only connect them looking backwards.  Nothing makes perfect sense until it does.  My friends and i have been there several dozen times ourselves, losses, failed exams, deaths of loved ones, and so forth – and every time, after a needed period of grieving, we pressed forth and life went on.  We learned, we grew, and we now take so much less for granted.  The truth is, it happens just like that.  What seems like the end of the road is just a cul de sac.  It feels like annihilation.  It feels like rejection.  It feels like failure.  But it isn’t.  You simply ran out of road on that route.  Time to back up, turn around, and look f...

Will expire one day

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Steve Jobs once said, "No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new'' Along with the gift of self-awareness comes awareness of our mortality. Your battery is running down and can’t be recharged. We prefer not to think about what we wish wasn’t so, but the tragedy is that we’re mortal, not that we know we’re mortal. Knowledge yields power, and by accepting that your time is limited, you can use this information to live better. How? No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best i...

What is Maturity

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I found this worth sharing because lot of us thinks that maturity is having many years of age or being taller and big. Here is what maturity is!   We think that maturity is about age and physical development, how wrong we are. I have since  found out that age is only but a number, below are some definitions of MATURITY..... 1....Maturity is when you accept other people the way they are and their level of maturity. 2....Maturity is when you understand that your ideas are not always the best. 3....Maturity is when you learn to let go even if it pains. 4...Maturity is when you are able to drop expectations from a relationship and give for giving sake. 5....Maturity is when you understand whatever positive thing you do, you do is for your own peace. 6....Maturity is when you stop proving to the world how intelligent you are. 7....Maturity is when you stop comparing yourself with others because life is not a competition. 8....Maturity is when you under...

Time to upgrade ourselves

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Today's GE lesson was an extra ordinary. After the session i had to think more about my life. Thank you Prof Sonika Mam, Parul university for the motivation words you shared with us today. This is worth sharing let me break down some of the things she talked about and i will try to explain them with the way i understood. We tend to be more concerned about upgrading our applications, softwares, androids etc but we tend to forget that even ourselves we need to be upgraded. Bill Gates once remarked that the key to succeed in business is to innovate and make yourself obsolete. If you don’t make yourself obsolete, your competitors will make you obsolete. Relating this quote to what Prof Sonika Mam said I agree completely. We live in a fast-changing world. What is current today may already be obsolete two years from now. For that reason, it’s important to know how to improve yourself. You need to make yourself obsolete. If you don’t, someone else will. I know everyone now r...

happy birthday ENDUP LEPCHA

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His hardship has taught him great life-lesson that there is no short cuts to success and must strive to do the best. In academics, he has done exceptionally well so far. To his testimony he has academic excellence certificates awarded right from The Golden Throne. Even as a young boy, the leadership and social services has always intrigued him. He has always had this dream of pursuing higher education in law, social services, and leadership. Yes his dream was with him, a big thank to his country for the free education and His Majesty for the gift as Gyalpoi Tozey where he could see the light now. Thanks to his teachers for shaping him, insisting him to discover the undiscovered treasure of his life. A hearty thanks to his friends and their parents who always comfort him and keep motivating. And a special thanks goes to his grandfather and Len Tshering his younger brother. Thank you all... Throughout his school days he was associated heavily with social service clubs....

Think think and think

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You know how you always turn down the volume on the radio or on your phone when you need to think clearly about something complicated or confusing? The same is true for your life in general. The noise you need to cut out to concentrate? That’s the noise in your head the busy, worried thoughts screaming over your better judgment. Turning down the radio refocuses your mind and offers you clarity when you need it most. You don’t really think about how or why this makes such a huge difference, you just know that it does. Now it’s time to apply this same strategy to all the other noise in your life, starting with the noise in your head. And although it’s not quite as easy as spinning the radio’s volume dial, the good news is you can quiet your mind and train it to think more rationally simply by reminding yourself to do so every day. Some people call them affirmations or convictions, some calls them mantras, but in any case these daily reminders keep you on track by keep...

Things you must leave behind to go ahead or to be successful

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          Like my friend Endup Lepcha from Bhutang always says,          I am not going to tell you the cooked story, I am not going to defame your opinion, I am not going to curb your thinking ,  But I am here with facts with evidences from my powerful tongue for all the powerful thinkers.   I had to leave my family in Zimbabwe in order for me to be a better person. I had to leave all the things behind. Even my community which made me the Petros i am today. I did this for me to be a better person. I know it's very hard to move a step further, that's why today i decided to touch on this issue. Things you must leave behind to go ahead or to be successful. You can never change things by holding on to the existing reality. To get ahead in life, you have to leave some things behind and build a new model for living that makes the existing model obsolete. If we want to be truly successful, ...

What is a true friend?

What is a true friend? A question that every human being has to ask in his/her life time.  Is it your partner in crime, or someone who tells you jokes and gossips,  or someone you can depend on. Let's start by looking at what other people say.   ''A true friend is someone who thinks that you are a good egg even though he knows that you are slightly cracked''  "A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is''  '' A true friend is someone who is always there during the ups and downs''  ''A true friend is someone who never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down''.   ''A true friend is someone you can be with never say a word and walk away feeling it was the best conversation you ever had'...

things you think about way often

Hi , You do know you talk to yourself in your mind all the time, right? Pretty much every one of us has a non-stop stream of thoughts – a mental monologue – that has a powerful impact on how we feel, how we behave, and how we live our lives. Too often, this mental monologue consists of unhelpful thoughts that hinder our happiness and effectiveness. Which is why it’s time to stop thinking about… 1. What you fear. As Franklin D. Roosevelt so profoundly said, “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” That’s the honest truth. The real thing that keeps you down is fear. The reason your fears have so much power over you is simply because you give them this power by thinking about them – the worst-case scenario, what you don’t want to happen, etc. It’s time to take a stand. It’s time to clear your fears from your thoughts. It’s time to acknowledge that your fear of grief is far worse than the grief you fear. 2. Old mistakes. Why regret? This moment doesn’t ha...